One of my favourite Finnish stand-up comedians Ismo Leikola once said: “The word “Finland” is not even Finnish. We don’t call our country Finland, we call it “Suomi” that’s nothing to do with “Finland”. So, who invented the word “Finland’? I don’t know… probably Sweden.
That joke stayed in my head long before I came here and always wanted to explore, and now that I live in Finland as an international student, I think it explains the country quite well. Finland doesn’t try to be loud or impressive. It doesn’t try to impress or convince you of anything. It simply exists quietly, and somehow that quietness slowly changes you.
Before Finland: Big Dreams and Big Curiosity
Like many international students, once I finished my Pathway studies at SAMK and received my residence permit, I was extremely excited. I searched almost everything about Finland online, the weather, culture, people, education and daily life.
I had already seen the news many times that “Finland is the happiest country in the world”, but to be honest I never imagined I would actually experience that country myself.
My name is Soe Moe Thu, and I come from Myanmar (also known as Burma), a Southeast Asian country where winter is around 20 degrees Celsius, and summer easily reaches 35 to 40 degrees Celsius. So, moving to Finland was not moving to another country, it was stepping into a radical change in every possible way “climate, culture, lifestyle, and mindset”.
Winter, Darkness and Silence
Every international student knows Finland is cold. I knew it too. I prepared winter clothes, watched YouTube videos and told myself I was ready. What I didn’t fully expect was the darkness. I arrived in December, and suddenly it was dark around 3 or 4 p.m. During my first month, after 4 p.m., I honestly didn’t know what to do, so I just went to my bedroom 😅.

The cold, the darkness and the silence slow everything down. At first, it feels uncomfortable and unfamiliar. But over time, I realized Finland was teaching me something important: slowing down is part of life here, not a problem to fix. Staying inside is not wasting time.

Are Finnish People Really That Serious?
Many people say Finnish people look serious and do not smile much, especially compared to people from warmer or more social cultures. At first, I noticed that too, then my wife said something very simple and it’s very true.
“It is very cold, nobody wants to smile. Everyone just wants to get home”, and honestly, that explains a lot. When it is freezing, smiling is not the priority. Survival is.
Finnish people may seem distant at first, but they are kind, respectful, and helpful. They would not talk unnecessarily, but if you ask for help, they will help you seriously and sincerely. They respect personal space, mind their own business, and expect you to do the same. Once you understand this, it feels peaceful rather than cold.
They also value rules and trust. Finland consistently ranks as one of the least corrupt and safest countries in the world, and this creates a strong feeling of security in daily life.
Studying in Finland: More Freedom Than I Expected
Before coming to Finland, I expected the education system to be very strict and exam focused. In reality, It is flexible, independent and trust based.
Teachers expect students to manage their own time, study independently, and think for themselves. This can be surprising and challenging for international students, who come from more structured education systems, at first.

One surprising thing is how teachers are friendly, flexible, and easy to approach. You can call them by their first names, ask questions freely, and even politely disagree. Which is almost unthinkable in many Asian countries, including mine.
The relationship between students and teachers feels equal and respectful. Here, hierarchy is low, and learning feels more human and equal.
Nature Is Not a Weekend Luxury
What truly surprised me is how much quality of life matters here. You can drink water directly from the tap and it tastes better than bottled water from some other countries. The air feels clean, public transport works, the cities feel safe even at night. My children go to school by themselves, something I would never allow back home.

Nature is everywhere. Finland has over 188,000 lakes, forests covering most of the country, and walking paths are not tourist attractions, but as part of daily life.
And a small but important detail for many international students from Asia. Bidet showers are common in Finnish bathrooms. That small comfort makes a big difference.
Understanding Finnish Happiness
Once, Norwegian YouTubers Helgi and Erlend joked that the “happiest Finn in the world” you may see on his face how happy he is. He would rather text than talk. When he’s not hiding from his neighbors, he spends most of his time in a very warm place “the sauna” where he is naked, relaxed, and completely content. It sounds funny, but after living here, I understand the joke.
Happiness in Finland does not come from excitement or loud joy. It comes from safety, stability, trust, equality, good education, and balance between work and personal life. It is a quiet kind of happiness, the kind you feel, not the kind you show.

What Finland Taught Me
As an international student, I am slowly getting used to Finnish quietness. I find it calming. Finland did not change me overnight, but slowly day by day, it taught me to slow down, to respect silence, and to appreciate simple routines. Now Finnish quietness no longer feels empty, it feels calm. And perhaps, that is the real lesson Finland teaches, that is what happiness looks like here. Not to be happy loudly, but how to be ok quietly.
Text and pictures: Soe Thu, student of International Tourism Management














































