Prior to moving from Nigeria to Finland, I thought I had an idea of what to expect. I imagined the cold weather, quiet people, good education, and a peaceful lifestyle. While some of those expectations turned out to be true, the reality at times can be challenging and most times beautiful.

Expectations, culture shock and personal growth
One of the first things that truly surprised me was the cold. Back home, the weather is warm and sunny. So, when the winter came in Finland I remember thinking, How do people survive this kind of cold? The freezing temperature, snow, and long dark days were a bit hard to adjust to at first.
Some days, the cold feels so overwhelming, physically and emotionally. At the same time, I can’t deny that the winter here is beautiful and magical. There’s something peaceful about the snowy landscapes, even when I find myself missing the warmth of home.
Quiet people and new social rules
In my country people are lively, expressive, and sociable. Conversations start easily, laughter comes naturally, and friendships often form quickly. Strong family values, kindness, and openness are part of everyday life. In Finland, things feel much quieter.
At first, I thought, why is everyone so silent? Are they angry? I thought they were the happiest people in the world! Over time, I realized that Finns are not rude, they are just reserved people and private. Personal space is respected, and friendships are built slowly but deeply. Punctuality and honesty are very important. I have learned to appreciate meaningful long-term connections.

Food
Food has been another big adjustment for me. Back home our food is spicy, full of bold flavors, rich and colorful. Finnish food often feels milder, and sometimes I wonder, “This food is good, but where is the spice?”
It’s also difficult finding ingredients, especially palm oil, local spices, and traditional seasonings. Some ingredients are hard to find or more expensive, which makes it difficult to prepare the meals that remind me of my home. It can feel like losing a piece of my culture in the kitchen. And sometimes I mix Finnish and Nigerian flavors together!
Fashion and self-expression
Back home, we love bright colors, bold fashion, and accessories are part of our identity. Dressing well is a form of self-expression and effort is expected for every occasion.
In Finland, fashion tends to be simpler and more natural. At first, I felt like my colorful styles stood out too much. I have learned to balance both.

Respect, culture and education
Cultural differences also appear in how respect is expressed. In Finland, calling teachers or elders by their first name is normal, and independence, even among elderly people it is highly valued. In my country, respect often looks more formal, and helping elders like carrying bags feels more expected.
The education system surprised me a lot. In my country, teachers are more hands-on, and students depend heavily on them. Learning follows a strict curriculum, and critical thinking outside it is limited. The teachers expect you to deliver the same material and note the way it was delivered.
In Finland, teachers act more like a guide, and students are encouraged to ask questions, think critically, learn independently and ask for help when necessary. At first, this felt unfamiliar and challenging. Now I appreciate how it builds confidence and independence. These differences made me more aware that respect can look different in different cultures.

Emotions, growth and gratitude
To be honest, moving here hasn’t always been easy. There were days I felt homesick, lonely, overwhelmed, and unsure at times.
But I have also felt proud, strong, independent, and grateful. Living in Finland has taught me patience, independence, cultural understanding, strength, and appreciation for both where I come from and where I am now.
Final thoughts and a new chapter
Finland did not just meet my expectations; it challenged and reshaped them.
Nigeria will always be my home, full of color, energy, warmth, spice, and life. Finland has become a place of calm, learning, growth, safety, and reflection.
I’m still learning, adapting, and building a new chapter of my life. One shaped by both cultures.
Text and pictures: Veronica Joseph, International Tourism Management student from Nigeria














































